the power equation: understanding gender, power and systemic change
Why do we celebrate getting women "in the room" while avoiding discussions about actual power? This question has haunted me throughout my strategic advisory work, leading to what I call the Power Equation: Representation + Power = Change.
The Power Paradox
Let me share something fascinating about power dynamics: watch what happens in any meeting when decisions are being made. Three women can voice an opinion, only to be overruled by one man's contrary view. This isn't about logic or merit - it's about how power structures assign value to different voices.
The Gender Dynamic
Here's what's particularly interesting: our entire narrative around power shifts based on gender. When men pursue power, it's seen as natural, even admirable. Yet when women express the same ambition, they face stereotypes: power-hungry, aggressive, somehow lacking in authenticity.
This isn't coincidence - it's system design.
Understanding Power Architecture
Through my work, I've observed how power reveals itself:
Watch who can veto group decisions
Notice whose suggestions get implemented despite opposition
Observe who can disagree without consequence
Pay attention to whose word carries more weight
These patterns show us where real power lies - and why mere presence isn't enough.
Beyond Representation
The conversation about representation often misses something crucial: being proximate to power isn't the same as having it. Numbers matter, but not just for visibility. They provide:
Protection through community
Grounding in shared values
Collective influence
Support against isolation
The Strategic Reality
For women navigating organizational power structures, understanding these dynamics is crucial. Power is rarely given - it's usually negotiated. This requires:
Understanding existing power structures
Recognizing where real decisions are made
Building strategic alliances
Maintaining values while gaining influence
Moving Forward
This isn't about making women comfortable with power - it's about recognizing that without it, representation becomes decoration. True transformation requires both the courage to seek power and the wisdom to use it.
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